You definitely will have to soak those bolts in some form of penetrant for least an hour for any kind of easement getting them off lol! I would use PB Blaster or Wd-40 or the like. Pb Blaster is some great stuff, I've knocked ball joints across the room that were stuck with that stuff soaked in it. Far as the bolt size, i'm unsure of that. Hopefully someone can add to that for you so you can replace it. I would just call your local dealership and ask if they have any in stock and find out the thread pitch 